Friend...But I love you

Ok, I may be just too much of a love guru to take the option of friendship and nothing more, or maybe i just get confused when a guy says, "well I love you, and I want to be with you...I just blah blah blah..." So my question is: Should I except the role of friendship booty call? HELL NAW!!! We are either friends and nothing more, or lovers with a storng friendship. But it must be exclusive. I can't expect anything less. I guess its a double standard to an extent, because in a relationship you must be friends to love whole heartedly...but if your friends you can't confuse the two. Oh well. I'll just keep doing me...LOL!